Dating japanese man
They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.For foreign women it’s a completely different story.Another problem is that many of the Japanese men seem to be afraid of their English ability and thus fail to approach a foreign woman.Most foreign men on the other hand, have no issues approaching a Japanese woman in English – or even in broken Japanese.For some reason Japanese women seem to find even ugly foreign guys attractive …..It might be a bit more difficult if you’re looking for a serious relationship as there are those women I mentioned earlier who either want you as “exotic accessory” or just want your DNA to create a cute “half-child”.These are just a few theories by friends, co-workers and myself.
Charai, or the Japanese phrasing of such, is basically being called a “player.” While you can gently toss it aside (or defend yourself valiantly), chances are you already in the hole.
Definitely not enough for a family long-term, and possibly not enough for a solid date.
Dependent on a girls age (younger girls care less), this could be a significant deterrent when it’s layered on top of other reasons in this list.
It’s not just conversation that makes this a turn off either. Very few couples are interracial, and of those that progress to marriage, the overwhelming majority are actually between a Japanese man and a foreign women (source).
If a foreigner guy’s language doesn’t progress with the relationship, he’ll have to rely on her progressively for understanding all sorts of issues: visas, taxes, healthcare, education, your haircut, ordering your food, her holding his hand to cross the street… Of Japanese women who get married, 1.3% marry a foreigner (source).