Girl dating a guy shorter than her
Taller women also tend to be more conscious of own height, so she understands that she widens her dating pool if she includes shorter men.
Now, I won’t deny that there are some taller women who refuse to date shorter men…But these women are close-minded and superficial. A woman who immediately rejects you because of your height is judgmental and searching for the “perfect man.”And because of that, she’ll never find anybody who makes her truly happy. At the end of the day, you can’t change your height.
The average woman is eight percent shorter than her male partner.
Of course the ability to search for people who meet our criteria is part of the appeal of online dating.
I'll get there in a minute.) Women have internalized the message that it's better for us to be smaller.
This is essential to know—it's not just about shortness, but also skinniness.
The first question most strangers ask me is "How tall are you? In one survey, about half of collegiate men required their date to be shorter, while a monstrous nine of every ten women said they would only date a taller man.
" If I'm feeling charitable, I answer honestly: "6-foot-2." They often follow-up with, "Do you ever date shorter men? And online, it's even more brutal: Women can calculate how tall they are in their highest heels, add a few inches for good measure, and then filter out men who fall below that sum.
And while Tom Cruise and Jamie Cullum are celebrities, yes, I want to point out that Dave Gardner is just a sports agent. So you don’t have to be a celebrity to date a taller woman!
(When one friend narrowed her Ok Cupid search to men taller than six feet and then complained about a boring date with some guy built like an NBA player, I laughed in her face.) Here's how I figure it: If a man is comfortable with the fact that I'm taller, he's also likely to be comfortable with the fact that I'm competitive and outgoing and career-oriented. To think of a world with all these new, gorgeous options.
If you won't do it for yourself, try it for my sake.
But what you can control is much more powerful: How you communicate and interact with women so that you get the upper hand.
So next time you meet a beautiful woman who just happens to be taller than you, just follow these 3 simple steps for success: The worst possible thing you can do when you meet a taller woman is bring her attention to your height difference right away…Because that’s not even everyone is gawking at it…But in reality, they haven’t even noticed it. On top of that, if you do mention it, she might assume you’re insecure or uncomfortable with your body. But if you ignore the difference, she’ll think you’re a confident guy who’s secure in himself…