History of courtship and dating
And yet dating is still treacherous: We may find a partner, but we may be ghosted (or exploited, or worse) or become too jaded to keep searching for meaningful connection.
Our habits are also a lot less novel than we like to think.
A related point you make is how participating in digital dating culture today is dependent upon having money.
On a very personal note, my grandfather was really sick and in hospice while I was finishing the book.I’ve thought a lot about how there’s been a reinvigoration of feminism in the US in the past five to 10 years. the new social movement, starting with Occupy and Black Lives Matter. Writers like Roxane Gay had a big online following before she wrote .I like to joke that "because the internet" is the answer to everything.You note that we’ve become more "educated consumers" in terms of how taste informs whom we choose to date and what kind of sex we seek. But of course it’s so much more emotionally complex than that. For two, if you’re playing [author] Neil Strauss’s version of , which is mostly about fulfilling the male fantasy of easily getting women into bed, you’re encouraged to "think of tonight as a video game." But with that, there’s a loss of connection with your own emotions, which is sad.Does treating a romantic prospect like a transaction or a game take a psychological toll? Because emotional connection is supposed to be the point of dating.